One of my frustrations is from my wife :
1. She's incessantly late for everything - work, church, meetings with friends, dinner, you name it. And I get the only share of troubles that comes with it, at times the blames as well.

2. Messy on shared space but refusal to allow others to clear/tidy up things. Still boils down to pride and stubbornness.

I try to overlook many others not listed but currently these are the current top 2.